Day 17 "Here’s To Taking My Life Back"

I didn’t sleep real well last night and was up kinda late.  I got up around 3 this afternoon.  I had to go with my sister to take her daughter to the ER because she swallowed one of my Mom’s pills that she takes for diabetes.  Lauren was ok!  I did get an appointment with a doctor today to look me over which is a good feeling.   I’m on my way to making positive changes in my life.  Here’s to taking my life back…hooray!

Day 16 "Stressing Out"

Had a not so good night of sleep .  Stressed a lot about my visit with my therapist.  It however went well and I’m going to start the disability process on my own.  I also need to get in with a doctor ASAP to get my thyroid and glucose straightened out.  I also need to be taking my Klonopin in the morning with my Lithium. 

Day 15 "Happy birthday To Me"

Overall good day…had a nice birthday.  All I thought about was a my visit with my therapist on Tuesday.  No binging or purging today for a change.   It was just a nice quiet day without distractions.

Day 14 "Worried About My Future"

Today was an alright day overall.  I had a hard time sleeping and ended up until almost 6 in the morning so I just took my Lithium and went back to bed.  I got up in the early afternoon and was pretty tired so I had to lay back down and I slept till 6 when it was time for my next dose of Lithium.  I had a mental explosion at my Mom in the middle of the night last night.  She had the tv on and was playing on her computer at 3 in the morning and I know I don’t have any right to say anything to her but I just need some private time to myself and she is always up.  She’s like this mad woman that never sleeps.  Anyway, she went to bed mad and I of course felt like the biggest jerk of all time.  We have a living room and family room and the family room is where my sleeping quarters are located and that’s where everyone congregates.  She says that this is my house  but every time I suggest that maybe she let me have the family room as a hideaway and she can have the living room as her hideaway she gets really angry.  I’m not saying that she has to give up control only that it would be nice if Io could have a private place to myself that isn’t my bedroom or the basement.  Anyway we got along better today but I know I’ve hurt her feelings.  I just want to have a good relationship with her but it’s hard.  I’m really hurting right now both emotionally and financially and she’s acting like she’s supportive of what I’m doing but I know she doesn’t trust anyone and thinks I’m making a huge mistake.  I say, how many more mistakes do I have to make until I should get help.  The financial thing is the thing that kind of bothers me the most but it also makes me feel weird.  I’ve been really stressed that I won’t be able to find a job or have enough money to retire on and she keeps telling me that I have an aunt and uncle who really love me and that things may change for me.  She’s insinuating that I’m going to be left something and while I’ll admit that it would be a nice thing.  I want to stand on my own two feet and make my own way.  I have made so many mistakes over the years and my parents seemed to enable me rather than nip the problems in the butt and I want to change that.  Everything I’m doing is so that I can have an independent life and not have to depend on anyone for anything.  I’m babbling now so it’s time to say goodnight or maybe I should say good morning.  Oh, Happy Birthday to myself!

Day 13 "Just Ranting"

I slept really bad last night and it took hours again to fall asleep on 1mg Klonopin.  I have taken them as prescribed and they just seem to take the edge off a little but don’t make me very drowsy.  I do like that they’re smooth.  I have tried a Xanax before and they weren’t like that but I did sleep and it was a lot rougher waking up after taking one.  Anyway, my energy level today has been all over the place. I have also been irritable and depressed.  I just can’t get past the representative payee thing with SSDI.  I don’t know for sure that I would be required but I bet I would need one because of past money problems I had when I was manic.  I have done some stupid things with money in the past but the past is the past and I’m trying to do everything right so that I can get my life back.  I have dreamed of being able to take care of myself my entire life and this seems goes against that.  What makes me really angry and has my mood flared is that I’ve had signs of mental illness since I was a child and nobody ever did anything about it.  I was diagnosed in 1977 as ADD, in 1983 I began OCD rituals, there were times when I would stay up all night for days on end and I would clean and rearrange my room, I was made fun of and bullied from the 6^th grade on up through high school, I wet the bed until I was 15 years old, I had attention problems, did poorly in school, and I missed an average of 30 days of school per year from the 6^th grade on through graduation.  Hell, I can’t believe they let me graduate but then again in their eyes I was a failure who made the teachers look bad and they just wanted to get rid of me. 

This is probably a lot of the reason my parents didn’t really see the need to get me help or make me see someone.  Back in the 1980’s everybody said try harder and if you do the minimum we’ll let you by.  My Mom is having an easier time accepting my diagnosis now than she did when I was first diagnosed with Cyclothymia but I have to kind of laugh because she looked at me the other day and said I should have told them I was having problems.   Hmmm…they knew that there was this boy on the bus in 6^th grade who punched me repeatedly in the groin area until I puked, they knew I fail3ed just about everything, they knew I was missing 30+ days of school a year, they knew I was wetting the bed, and they knew that I almost didn’t graduate high school.  Oh I forgot to mention that my OCD was of the counting nature and I would stay up for hours setting my alarm clock saying it out loud and my room was right next to theirs . 

I’m not blaming anybody for my problems and I don’t want anyone to think that.  It just frustrates me because I feel like if this could have been caught 20 years ago maybe I could have gotten myself stabilized at an earlier age.  But now, I’m now 41 years old and looking at a minimum of a year to get myself stabilized on  meds.  I would love to go back to work but who is going to want to hire a 42 year old man who has been out of the workforce for three years and has a history of getting fired and quitting jobs.  Heck, my therapist and psychiatrist might say that it's better for me not to work full time.  I’m just frustrated about everything right now and a little depressed but I am going to continue my treatment and at least look at the bright side which is that my mania has went away.  So I guess I do have something to be thankful for!!  Its 414am and this Klonopin is sort of starting to work because I’m a little tired so I’m going to go to bed and see what happens….goodnight!

Day 12 "Thinking About The Disability Application Process"

I had an average night of sleep.  I took my Klonopin and laid in bed for around 2-3 hours before I finally fell asleep.  I did sleep ok once it worked.  Today was a pretty average day and nothing too eventful happened.  I napped for in the afternoon because I was so tired and then spent a bunch of hours on Idea Circle reading and responding to posts.  I put a post on there the other day about a site I found to help with the disability process and someone suggested that I make sure to name a representative payee to handle my benefits if I’m approved.  I had never heard of that before so of course I started doing some digging and found out that the SSA can require you to have a representative payee and that person gets your money, pays your bills, pays for your clothes, and any other necessities you may need.  I stated to my counselor that I’ve had some money issues in the past and that I’ve bought pot as well.  So according to all I read I’m going to probably be required to have someone named as a representative payee.  This really pisses me off and makes me just want to drop the whole thing.  I have been up front about everything that I’ve gone through and putting together checklists and trackers for myself to stay consistent with my treatment all because I want to be able to live on my own and take care of myself on my own.  I don’t want anyone in my business at all.  Yes, I have made some mistakes and yes I may need some help but I would like to come out of this at some point on my own.  I might have a mood disorder that causes me to have both manic and depressive states at the same time and it effects me working full time because that seems to be a trigger but I feel wholeheartedly that I can manage my finances.  My bills are pretty bad right now but that’s because I haven’t had a full time job in over two years.   I figured that there would be some sort of surprise along the way in this whole disability thing and I got it.  I’m going to have to think long and hard about even applying.  I feel like my independence is gone now and if I have to ask for an allowance to get some new clothes at Wal-Mart at age 42 or 43 that’s going to make me feel even worse.  I’m done typing for now….goodnight!

Day 11 "Good Day On Lithium"

Today was the best day I’ve had so far on Lithium.  I still have a lot of anxiety but otherwise I wasn’t angry, irritable, hypomanic, and I didn’t binge or purge.  My appetite is still increased and I feel like all I want to do is eat.  I’m going to try hard to get back to tracking what I eat on SparkPeople.com.  I’ve gained about 13 pounds in the last two weeks and it’s a little annoying.  I talked to two really good friends on the phone today and it felt good to converse with both of these friends.  Both friends know of my condition and understand what I’m going through.  Last night I was up late again and the Klonopin seemed like it never kicked in.  I do sometimes feel like I have less anxiety but I almost feel like my nightly dose could be the dose I take during the day and that my nightly dose could be doubled.  I took a whole pill at 10pm and it’s now 1am and I’m still wide awake….that’s how it is every day.  I was lying in bed but that just frustrates me so I got up and am on the computer.  I will try and go back to bed in a little bit.